Ultimately, those who have cheated or have been the girlfriend or other woman will always live with the aftermath of decisions.
Affairs are shadows that lurk and haunt long after they are over.
You don’t, but this is because you never completely get over an affair. The further you get from the affair, the less you feel the need to punish yourself for your past.
Once you’ve reached that point, the greatest thing to seek is clarity.
Only then will you begin to understand that what you thought you had you never really had to begin with. That special feeling was only temporary and you knew all along because society rejects the fuck out of infidelity because it’s wrong.From the moment an affair begins you’re essentially counting down the days until it’s over or becomes discovered. Usually, neither party is ready to deal with the ramifications.You eventually come to realize that the person you thought you couldn’t live without is not the same person you loved. I recall thinking many times “who or what have I become” because as I said before, affairs change you. People who cheat are forced to analyze every fiber of their being.If you could describe yourself in one word, what word would you choose?It is really important to know what your potential date would consider a ‘perfect date’.
Gone are the days of lying to yourself, which you do for so long you become your own enabler, and the affair becomes something you depend on.