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He has learned to adapt by mimicking the emotions of others whenever necessary.
The dominant feelings found in a Narcissist are as follows: Anger: This is generally the default setting on the Narcissists emotional scale. The ifs and whens are not consistent, so you never know when it’s coming, or the level he will take it to.
Sometimes the work they went to do goes sour – the deal falls through or the project they were working on is a failure… But what they find is their wife –tired and exhausted too. But rather than looking around at everyone else, I have to work on watering and fertilizing my own grass to keep it green and choosing contentment is the first step. Be thankful your man is out slaying dragons for his family. I take care of myself physically, spiritually and emotionally. It has been in my trusting and delighting – that God has filled the God shaped hole inside of me, to the brim. Daily the children and I pray over the specific meetings, challenges, customers and appointments he has. I like to help him pack and plan his clothes for whatever challenges he is going to face that week.
And if we aren’t careful, this is a recipe for a disaster in marriage. Bitterness can creep into every crevice that you allow! I do not waste energy dreaming of him being here and or how our lives would be better if he didn’t travel. I learned long ago that no one was going to say to me “.” I had to choose to make sure that I took care of myself so I had more to give to my kids while my husband was away. When the children were little and had no understanding of time, we would count down “sleeps” until daddy was home.
Smugness: When a Narcissists pulls one over on you he’s feeling pretty good about himself.
If you’re hurting and pining for his return – that is shear bliss for him.
To the Narcissists sense of grandiosity we are all objects, whose sole purpose is to provide him with amusement and adulation.
Anger is commonly used as a manipulation tactic, or as a control mechanism to keep his minions in line and on their toes.
If ignorant both of your enemy and of yourself, you are sure to be defeated in every battle.” Chinese General Sun Tzu. What a Narcissist possesses are pseudo emotions, lacking in depth and substance.
Your enemy is a predator, he feeds off of the emotions and kindness of those closest to him. He is disconnected from his emotions, feels a sense of entitlement and has an impaired ability to feel remorse or guilt. Every demonstration is superficial and short lived.
The small taste I have had of running the show alone gives me a deep respect for single moms across the globe who daily press on for the sake of their children. Now let’s turn the tables and take a look at our husbands. To work…to provide a paycheck, home, clothes and food for their family. I Timothy 5:8 says, If anyone does not provide for his family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
So our husbands working is a good thing and don’t let the critics steal that honor from your husband. Satan can use this time to enter sinful thoughts into our minds such as self pity, self-centeredness, bitterness, anger, and jealousy.